Yes, You can Mediate your Florida Alimony.

How much Alimony? Consider the Length of your Marriage.

alimony is a difficult subject to navigate through

Will I have to pay Alimony?

The most important factor to determine how much alimony you may pay is how long you were married. As the length of the marriage increases, alimony is more likely. But all of the other factors must also support an alimony judgment. The time is counted from your marriage date until the date of the divorce petition.The probability you will pay or receive alimony – by number of years married:

4 years: not likely, 7 years: slightly possible, 10 years: very possible, 12 years: probable, 17 years: almost definite. 

The Unpredictability of Alimony

Alimony in Florida is one of the more unpredictable areas of family law. Unlike child support, there is not a guarantee of alimony, nor a set amount if alimony is granted by the court. You can have the same set of facts and get 10 different decisions in 10 different courts. Some states have alimony guidelines – but not Florida. Florida alimony statutes require the judge to consider a list of factors when deciding the issue of alimony. Each factor is shown below. Unlike other states, Florida does not embrace the concept of legal separation. That means alimony is rarely, if ever, granted unless a couple is going through the divorce process.

Overview of Alimony in Florida Divorces

How much alimony will I receive - is a common question. When two spouses divorce in Florida, the court may order one ex-spouse to pay the other alimony. Alimony – or spousal support, as it is sometimes called – is typically money paid by one spouse to the other and meant to support and provide for the other spouse for a period of time. The court can fashion an alimony award so that the spouse receiving the alimony can enjoy a standard of living that he or she was accustomed to during the marriage, so he or she can go back to school or complete a job training program, or to provide for his or her needs until he or she can get back on his or her feet following the divorce. A court has a great deal of discretion in awarding alimony to an ex-spouse. Whereas child support orders are calculated according to a specific, statutorily-defined formula, a court can consider a number of factors in determining whether any alimony is appropriate in a given case and, if so, what type and what amount of Florida alimony should be awarded. An ex-spouse who understands the purposes of alimony and the factors a court considers when awarding alimony can anticipate whether the court in his or her case will award any alimony. 

Other considerations include the division of assets, such as investment and retirement plans through a QDRO. You have the option to mediate through these very important issues.

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Am I entitled to alimony when I divorce?

The Court will consider:


  • Ability to pay
  • The duration of the marriage
  • The age of the parties
  • The physical health of the parties
  • The emotional health of the parties
  • The standard of living established in the marriageand the likelihood that each party can maintain a reasonably comparable standard of living
  • The earning capacities of the parties
  • The educational levels of the parties
  • The vocational skills of the parties
  • The employability of the parties
  • Marital misconduct
  • The length of absence from the job market
  • The custodial responsibilities for children of the party seeking alimony
  • The time and expense necessary to acquire sufficient education or training to enable the party seeking alimony to find appropriate employment, and the availability of the training and employment
  • The opportunity for future acquisitions of capital assets and income
  • The history of the non-financial contributions to the marriage by each party including contributions to the care and education of the children and interruption of personal careers or educational opportunities
  • The history of the financial contributions to the marriage by each party including contributions to the care and education of the children and interruption of personal careers or educational opportunities
  • The equitable distribution of property ordered and any payouts on equitable distribution, directly or indirectly, out of current income, to the extent this consideration is reasonable, just and fair and
  • Any other factors which the court may deem relevant.

What does the Court consider when deciding Florida Alimony?

What does the Court consider when deciding Florida Alimony?

BIG changes in 2019 Alimony Law:

Tax Cuts and Jobs Act, also known as TCJA.

For payments required under divorce or separation instruments that are executed after Dec. 31, 2018, the new law eliminates the deduction for alimony payments. Recipients of affected alimony payments will no longer have to include them in taxable income. 


This TCJA treatment of alimony payments will apply to payments that are required under divorce or separation instruments that are: 

(1) executed after Dec. 31, 2018 or 

(2) modified after that date if the modification specifically states that the TCJA treatment of alimony payments (not deductible by the payer and not taxable income for the recipient) now applies.

For individuals who must pay alimony, this change can be expensive -- because the tax savings from being able to deduct alimony payments can be substantial.

There’s no change in the federal income tax treatment of divorce-related payments that are required by divorce agreements that are executed before 2019. However, for these payments to qualify as deductible alimony, payers must still satisfy the time-honored list of specific tax-law requirements. If those requirements are met, alimony payments can be written off above-the-line on the payer’s federal income tax return. That means the payer does not have to itemize to benefit from the deduction. Payment recipients must include alimony payments that are required by divorce agreements executed before 2019 in their taxable income. So this is a continuation of business as usual. 


If you are in divorce proceedings and want deductible alimony treatment for some or all of the payments that will be made to the other party, the TCJA gives you a huge incentive to get your divorce agreement wrapped up and signed by 12/31/18.

On the other hand, if you will be the recipient of payments, you have a big incentive to put off finalizing your agreement until next year, because the payments would be tax-free to you.

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Florida divorce and alimony tax issues.

Florida divorce and alimony tax issues.

Do I need a QDRO?

retirement accounts are very important aspects of marital property when deciding on distribution

401(k) and Divorce

You have saved and invested for the long term in your 401(k) plan.

But what happens if you become divorced? In a divorce, your former spouse and any dependents may be entitled to a portion of you 401(k) assets. If this is the case, the court will issue a qualified domestic relations order (QDRO) as part of your divorce settlement that will define the what, when, and how of the division of your 401(k) or other retirement plan account.

A QDRO is a court judgment, decree, or order that names someone other than you as a recipient of you 401(k) assets. This other person, known as the alternate payee, may only be your spouse, your former spouse, your child, or other dependent. The QDRO is used in the division of assets in a divorce settlement for alimony payments, child support payments, or property rights payments. If you are involved in a divorce proceeding, be sure to ask your company's plan administrator if there is a model QDRO form for your plan. Doing so early on in the process will save you time and expense.

There is one piece of good news in this situation. The money removed from your account for a properly processed QDRO is not subject to the 10 percent early withdrawal federal income tax penalty-even if you and your alternate payee are both younger than age 59 ½. Unfortunately, if the QDRO is not properly established, you will be subject to the 10 percent early withdrawal federal income tax penalty. In the midst of divorce and the distribution of your account to other parties, the last thing you want to face is a tax on money that is no longer yours. 

Ensuring the Validity of a QDRO:

In order for a QDRO to be valid, it must meet two legal requirements: It must be correctly created and it must be correctly verified. Checking the status of your QDRO at both stages is wise to ensure that your QDRO is acceptable under the law. If this seems like a lot of trouble, keep in mind that aside from preventing undo taxation, the other reason why such checking and double-checking takes place is to prevent someone from illegally accessing your 401(k) assets.

Creation of the QDRO:

To be considered a QDRO, the division of your assets must first and foremost be directed by a court order issued in compliance with state laws. However, the QDRO must also include the following information to be valid:

· Your name and your last known mailing address.

· The name and address of your alternate payee.

· The amount of percentage of your account to be given to your alternate payee.

· The manner in which the amount or percentage is to be determined.

· The number of payments or period to which the order applies.

· The plan to which the order applies.

Verification of the QDRO:

If your 401(k) plan assets are subject to a QDRO, you must provide your plan administrator with either the original court order or a court-certified copy of your QDRO document. Your plan administrator will then follow formal procedures to establish the legality of the QDRO and put it into motion. These procedures are part of the rules set down in your 401(k) summary plan description (SPD), and by law they must include:


· Notifying you and the alternate payee that the order was received, and detailing the procedures that will be followed to verify the order.

· Determining within a reasonable period of time (no longer than 18 months after the order is issued) whether the order is valid QDRO.

· Accounting separately for any amount payable to your alternate payee during the evaluation period.

· Notifying you and your alternate payee whether the QDRO is valid.

A QDRO Case Study:

In a famous case, a man paid out $1 million dollars from his retirement plan as part of his divorce settlement. The man assumed that the order was a QDRO, but missed several key elements that caused the order to be invalid. First, the man's former wife was not identified as the alternate payee. Second, the order did not include the name or address of the alternate payee. Third, the man did not follow proper procedure for verifying the order.

Because the man was the administrator of the retirement plan in question, he argued that he did not need to file forms with himself, and that the order did not need to include the name and address of the alternate payee because he was personally aware of the details. The IRS did not agree, and deemed the settlement payment an early distribution and, therefore, subject to the 10 percent early withdrawal federal income tax penalty. This error cost him $100,000.

The Division of Funds in a Divorce:

How your funds are divided relies in part on the state in which you live. In most states, your assets are subject to equitable distribution during a divorce settlement. This means that 401(k) assets accumulated during your marriage probably, but not necessarily, will be divided 50-50. Other factors, such as the division of the rest of your marital assets, the length of your marriage, or what each of you contributed to the marriage will also play a part in the decision. However, if you live in a state with a community property law, you may face an equal split in your 401(k) assets regardless of the other division of marital assets. Florida does not recognize the community property law.

What to Do with QDRO Assets:

If you have recently gone through a divorce and will receive money from your former spouse's 401(k) plan a result of a QDRO, you have several options. Taking the money in cash can be useful to get through the rough divorce period, but keeping the assets within a tax-sheltered plan could be far more beneficial. If you receive a lump-sum distribution you will have to pay taxes on the entire amount immediately and you will lose the investing and earning power of that money for the future.

Instead, consider leaving the money in your former spouse's 401(k) plan or rolling it over into an IRA. If you would like to leave it in the 401(k) plan, you can make this stipulation part of the QDRO agreement. When the money is divided, the plan's administrator will create a separate account for you. You may not be able to add to this account or withdraw from it until your former spouse withdraws his or her money at retirement, but you will be able to manage the investments of this money yourself and keep it safely tax-sheltered. If you would instead prefer an account to which you can make contributions, rolling the money into an IRA is the best option. Rolling the money into an account not connected with your former spouse also provides you with more freedom as you are allowed to withdraw the money at your own discretion.

It's Your Nest Egg.

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